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Saying “I do” Promotes Obesity



I’ve previously blogged on how research on social networks suggests that obesity may well be socially contagious!

So what about obesity in people who actually live together?

This question was now addressed by Natalie The and Penny Gordon-Larsen from the University of North Carolina, Chapel Hill, NC, USA, in a paper published this month in OBESITY.

The objective of this study was to examine whether romantic partnership and duration of living together are related to incident obesity and obesity-promoting behaviors, by which the development of obesity in one individual increases the risk of obesity in his/her spouse.

The researchers examined two large data sets from the National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health: (i) 6,949 US adolescents (wave II, 1996) followed into adulthood (wave III, 2001-2002) and (ii) 1,293 dating, cohabiting, and married romantic couples from wave III, including measured anthropometry and self-report behavior data.

Perhaps not surprisingly, the analysis clearly showed that individuals who transitioned from single/dating to cohabiting or married were markedly more likely to become obese than those who were just dating. 

For both men and women, living with a romantic partner for 1 year or more increased the likelihood of incident obesity by up to 3-fold compared to single/dating individuals. This risk became even stronger for couples who lived together more than 2 years.

Cohabiting/married couples reported less physical activity, more screen time and other sedentary behaviours that may promote weight gain. The authors also speculate about possible impact on portion size (the lean person gradually adapting to the obese partner’s eating habits and requirements).

From my own clinical practice, I can only confirm that a partner’s lifestyle is often reported as a significant barrier for weight control. In fact it is not at all unusual to find that the efforts of one partner struggling to control their own weight is blatantly sabotaged by the other (intimate saboteurs). This can take the form of continuing insistence on bringing home or preparing excessive amounts of high-caloric foods, preference of social activities that involve sedentary behaviours and excessive eating (and/or drinking), reluctance to use active transportation for social outings or to engage in regular shared physical activity,  etc.. 

In more than a few cases, I have seen longstanding romantic relationships breakup, when one partner ultimately insists on changing their own lifestyle, despite the complacency or sabotage from their spouse.

On the other hand, it is generally not easy to bring up the subject of weight in a relationship without this being seen as a personal attack (not unlike the difficulty of addressing excessive alcohol consumption, smoking, or mental health problems in a partner). It is often up to the obese partner to make the first move. 

Marriage-induced weight gain – certainly an interesting topic for family medicine!

AMS
Edmonton, Alberta

1 Comment

  1. Hi DR.SHARMA:

    I can agree with you 100% on this study,because it has happen to my husband and my ex-husband.They were both slim until we started living together and over the years they both have gain alot of weight to put them into the over weight catagory.I also believe you have opened up my eyes to realize this is due to my cooking and bad eating habits not fully their faults.Although we say you cannot make anyone eat but I think my loving to cook in bad ways are my responsibilities too!I just never thought of it the way you say it.I am on the weight watch program wanting to change my life as well as my families life.Well waiting and hoping for a gastric bypass I am learning to change my life around starting with this new day I have been given.I am looking forward to all the great information I can learn from you(as for you understand what people like me go through).

    thank-you!
    annette

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